all about me epidemic

Lately all I have been dealing with is this epidemic of "all about me". I can't get over the amount of people who take their own lives so seriously and leave no thought to anyone else. In my own personal life I have gone through a significant year of change within my own family. Losing a family member and making sure that everyone is alright is a difficult matter to deal with. In my family their is a certain extension that doesn't seem to realize the idea of helping others. All they say when you ask for their help is "We're busy", "I'm tired", "I'm studying for a test", etc etc etc. This non-stop drone of excuses that really have nothing to do with trying to help. Meanwhile all summer while my mom works desperately to help out my grandpa fix up his new place and help him with everything under the sun, a certain family and relation hasn't done one thing. They say they are busy and things are hard right now for them, but they spend the weekends away and vacationing around. These are people that are full of BS and don't even care that they do not pull any sort of weight. They claim they are hard working and responsible, yet can't even pick up the phone or get in the car and see if they can do something. I am so sick of the me, me, me way of life. I am someone who does for myself, but spends way more time on others. As hard as my mom has worked all summer with my grandpa, my dad and myself have been there just at much. It kills me that these are people who say they care and say call whenever, yet can't even make an effort without being told. Some people really need to wake up and smell the coffee because sooner or later they will regret the fact that they are lazy and useless selfish people. They talk about the next pandemic that will kill off the population, what they need to focus on is the pandemic of selfish people who live only for themselves.